However, the real problem is that most of the time we don’t even realise that we have a problem. An act of self-betrayal and self-deception can happen either at a personal or professional level without one knowing that it is happening. To solve this problem and step out of the box of self-deception, you can start by putting yourself in their shoes and trying to operate with the outward mindset. Also, for those you’re seeing as irrelevant, let’s think what it must feel like for them to feel ignored or hardly cared about. When you allow humanity inside the box you’re in, you no longer feel the need to blame others and inflate their faults.

Source: Bangkok Post November 21, 2016 00:04 UTC